A thank you note I should have written 30 years ago…
Thank you for all the times you took me shopping, especially back to school shopping.
Thank you for enduring the underage dance clubs masquerading as clothing stores, complete with nonexistent lighting, migraine-inducing music and sales girls who serve as bouncers deciding if you’re cool enough to wear their employer’s clothes.
Thank you for resisting the urge to say things like, “Oh my God, I can’t believe denim overalls (or MC Hammer pants or crop tops) are back in style. I wore those when I was your age.”
Similarly, thank you for not buying yourself a pair of shoes just like the ones I picked out because they really are both cute and comfortable.
Thank you for enduring hours in dressing rooms buried under piles of rejected clothes that needed to be hung up and put back on the racks.
Thank you for not ordering a shot of tequila when we finally took a lunch break.
Thank you for biting your tongue and letting me choose my “signature look” which unsurprisingly, resembled every other kid hoping to fit in at middle school.
I know that after a day of shopping, I would breezily offer a “thanks mom” while shuttling bags of new loot up to my room, but it wasn’t until this weekend that I fully understood the patience, love and emotional energy that went into a day at the stores – I guess they call it retail therapy for a reason.
So today I say thank you — for everything — as well as start my own 30-year countdown until my daughter can do the same.